4 Truths About Men Every Woman Should Know

1. Men Aren't Always Good at Picking Up Hints.

 First off, men aren't as in tune with details as women are. We drop hints that we're certain are clear, but they go right over the man's head. We assume they know what we want, but men may misread our cues and end up doing the exact opposite. The mistake is thinking our partners know us well enough to be mind readers 24/7, which leads to misunderstandings and accusations that they don't care enough about what's important to us.  Clarity and transparency are needed for a harmonious relationship. Tell your partner what you want rather than hoping he'll pick up on vague hints that can easily be misunderstood or ignored. 

2. Men Are Lonelier Than You Think. 

Many men struggle with societal expectations to be stoic about their emotions — feelings of loneliness, depression, anxiety, and failure are often brushed aside. Rather than expressing how they feel, they stifle their emotions to avoid appearing weak. They often go silent without communicating what's really bothering them, and they will rarely ask for help. While we rely on our girlfriends to vent, many men don't have the same support system. It's important for them to share a guys' night out just to let off steam with their buddies. But some women view this as being placed lower on the priority list and worry about their man's behavior if they're not around to control the situation. This has more to do with trust and possessiveness, and it's wrong to project your negativity on your partner. Men desire male companionship the same way we need our female friends as sounding boards. Restricting your partner's friendships is unhealthy and a sure way to end your relationship.

3. Men Are Vulnerable and Insecure, Too. 

So much of a man's identity is linked to providing and protecting, and they live in fear of failure. Although they'll never admit it, they need compliments, too, and reassurance that they're worthy of your love. Most crave praise and attention from their partners, but if they don't get enough affection (sexual or non-sexual), they feel unwanted, unloved, and alone. Many men in long-term relationships complain of always making the first move sexually, wishing their partners would express desire and take the lead. This is a double-edged sword since men generally don't like to communicate their insecurities for fear of appearing vulnerable. But without a show of affection or sexual desire, men feel unwanted and unappreciated. If he feels he can never please you or meet your approval, chances are he'll end the relationship. 

4. Men Will Always Notice Other Women. 

It's something all women have experienced — walking down the street with our partner when, suddenly, his eyes follow a pretty woman passing by. It's human nature to be visually attracted to someone who is pleasing to the eye, and it by no means indicates that your man is a cheater. Remember, men are wired differently than we are and will always look at an intriguing female who crosses their path. *Spoiler alert: women look at attractive men, too — we're just better at hiding it! Whether it's a casual glance or a long look, most men aren'y even aware that they're doing it or how it affects you. They dismiss their actions as no big deal. But if you still feel disrespected when he looks at other women, communicate your feelings and determine whether the root cause is an instinctive habit or something more serious. Much of it depends on your level of self-confidence and trust in your relationship. Unless he is frequently ignoring you to crane his neck around to stare at other women, or attempting to make contact with them, you should have nothing to worry about.

Other trait differences between men and women are simple things, such as shorter attention spans (no long-winded conversations, please — they won't remember half of it), and forget nagging — he'll just tune out the static. Men are also very good at reading other men, so if your partner warns you about another man's intentions, he's probably right. He may not like shopping with you, but if he sees something he really wants, he's going to buy it regardless of what you think. And lastly, even if you think those jeans make your bum look big, your man doesn't care — to him, you're still the hottest woman in the room.

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